Tuesday, July 8, 2014

On My First Wedding Anniversary!!

 Well!
 Now its been an year since
A girl
 - Calls me Ettaa...though she wishes to call me Sabbu
- Says Good Morning everyday giving that weird look at me
 - Bugs me off by saying "Vere Endaa Parayuu??" when she does not have anything to tell me.
 - Calls me during lunches and asks - "Ningal Choru Kazhicho?"
 - Cries out loud when I shock her from behind
 - Makes food for me when I come back from office
 - Wants me to sit with her for which she says - "Evide Irikyu Etta"
 - Takes my mum for an outing whenever she wishes to go
 - Recites an elongated Thannnkkk You for little things that give her delight
 - Needs me to be the lover boy in her life though I seem to be pretty boring
 - Frightens me when she calls in evening and asks - "Innu Eppo Varum?"
 - Gets crazy by seeing an ice-cream or a chocolate
 - Hugs me when she needs care and warmth
 - Makes me feel low when she falls sick
 - Accompanies me for all the crap and good movies that I needed to see @ Sathyam Cinemas
 - Sponsors Cold Coffee and Veg Puffs during those breaks
 - Needs me to drop her @ office everyday thought I don’t do so
 - Massages my forehead with a balm when it aches badly after a hectic day
 - Gives me a hug as if to say - You are my property

You guessed it right! Its our first Wedding Anniversary..Hoping to see a bunch of surprises in the times ahead
 Cheers - Ettan!!

Krishna.......secured in the arms of Yashoda


To my parents on their 31st Wedding Anniversary - Jan 21 2014

31 years of relationship
 you tied the knot on Jan 21 1983..
 you laughed..
 you screamed..
 you cried..
 you scolded..
 you made love..
 I was born..
 It became the first triumph for you...
 I cried for milk
 I spoke
 I called Ma..
 I crawled
 I walked
 I went to school
 Cried again for my lessons..
 You nurtured me
 You got me the first book to read..
 You got me the first pen to write...
 We 3 struggled together...
 Survived the tests of time
 I cleared my boards..My first academic milestone
 It became the second triumph for you...
 I studied further..
 Became an Engineer
 Got a job...
 Hugged and cried to celebrate and say I am independent...
 Pa was on call...Ma was holding me tight..
 It was my birthday gift for Ma...
 I grew professionally..
 Learnt more about people..
 enjoyed success..
 digested failures...
 Inturn learnt how to live..
 Pa fell ill..
 I grew up further...
 Ma and me made him recover and come back..
 We felt blessed to be back in form..
 You searched for a girl for me..
 We added a new member to our family..
 It became the third triumph for you...
 Chitra became my wife..
 I understand you more..
 I realize you more..
 I love you more now...
 Let the journey go on....
 Wishing you many lovely moments in the years to come...
 
HAPPY 31st WEDDING ANNIVERSARY..

Saturday, January 15, 2011

New Year....as it came by!!!!

Well, I know the fact that the "New Year Eve" has always been an important event for all of us every year. What actually matters me now is the change that my life has witnessed in how we celebrate it. This change, though, might not have affected me much, but definitely the present generation for sure. It has been influenced with the showers of the changing society, their attitude, their view towards life and their inclination towards the western culture :)....Are you one of them who are a participant in the last one I said?....No doubt, the western culture has captivated most of us all through these years. Though it has been a slow gradation but now the results are prominent. I don’t know why I get into that all the time...Probably; this New Year eve was also a testimony for it.
              I stay next to the East Coast Road (ECR) which runs along the Bay of Bengal and indeed, invites many long drive lovers. This 31st Dec was something different. I was on my way back home in the office cab and my wrist watch displayed 10:20. Of course a "PM" beyond doubt. The road was absolutely jam-packed and all vehicles would have lost a race with a snail if they ever planned to do so on that evening. Now, this was not usual at all. When I looked around, my mind applied its trivial intelligence to convey that it was a big crowd of youth heading towards the various destinations along ECR...for a lavish New Year Blast!!! One of the SWIFTS had four guys who were playing some HARD Rocks...hard enough to toggle your heart beats...A few bikes had triples on board..I am sure they had reserved a share for the traffic cops as well so that they don’t spoil this exciting night which would in turn open the gateway for the New Year 2011...
          Oh, amidst all this, I think I forgot to introduce myself. I am Sabrish and I work as a S/W professional in one of the leading TOP TIER IT companies  ... :) At least they say so; though not really helping me to make my pockets heavy. Well, I don’t wanna blame anybody for this...coz "Money Management" is definitely an art which ought to be practiced religiously to see its results gradually influencing your life. People, who don’t do this, always keep complaining...just like me :).
Finally I reached home by 10:50 and wished an advanced Happy New Year to a few of my roommates who were all set to celebrate this moment. Guess what, they had ordered Pizzas and Coke from Pizza Hut. Now, as I am a Pure Veg, except when it comes to cakes, they had ordered a pepe paneer pizza for me. It finally hit 12:00 and this indeed, marked a fresh moment coming in. The one which was bestowed the superpower to change the very YEAR of existence...from 2010 to 2011.Its really crazy to say this, but, I entered my room in 2010 and slept in 2011.Lol....that’s too much to talk about.
                                  My mind just stopped by on seeing an old photograph which snapped me and my mom hugging each other. It suddenly swept my thoughts to those old "NEW YEAR EVES" which meant spending more time at home with our loved ones. Those were the years when I stayed at North India in the city of Kanpur. My dad was employed there and hence I became a part of that minority who had migrated from South to North India to make a better living.31st Decembers are usually the ones which register the lowest levels of mercury and it’s chilled all around. All schools used to be closed as part of winter vacations and our moms would be too busy handling us at home all the time. I still remember those evenings when we made it a point to make something special to pamper our taste buds. It seemed as if it was an annual delight for them on account of serving us diligently to realize all the GOOD tastes during the last year :).
                         Television played a very important role in entertaining us all through the night. Special events, concerts, songs and movies ...all of that to invite the new year with a BIG BANG...One of those which I could remember now was "remembering Raj Kapoor ---the Show Man". All the golden hits of this great legend were performed by King Khan who enacted Raj Kapoor. I still remember the big stars of the Kapoor family coming out after the show. The doors displayed Wembley Arena in scarlet red lights. These letters had somewhere registered in my mind and I could later find this is a huge arena in London. My dream place to visit :).
             Another one which stands fresh in my memories is                   Eternal Asha- Kal Aaj Hamesha , the concert dedicated to Asha Bhonsle. It was hosted by SONY Entertainment Television and was indeed conceived by her son. She nearly sang an era of songs which had the power to graph the very journey of music in Indian Cinema which we now call "BOLLYWOOD". Watching these programmes and munching peanuts with my family has always been a treasured nostalgia in my life. I doubt if my kids would be fortunate enough to enjoy such moments which, though small and unimportant, play a vital role in creating that bond with our loved ones. Loads of balloons, crackers, sweets and snacks...this is all we had to welcome the New Year moment wherein all the families in our colony would assemble and wish each other. Now, what’s actually missing these days in the simplicity and gratification which was witnessed during those times...
                                  Maha Ganapathim Manasa Smaraami...my mobile jerked with this cute fusion ringtone thus conveying that my MOM was calling me. I took her call pressing that green button and heard her wishing me a Happy New Year. I had a chuckle on my face which asserted my pleasure to hear that and wish her the same. After ending that call, I truly felt that all moments that we come across, are actually meant to pass by. They just can’t stagnate at all. But what lingers on is the respect towards those who made these moments look so special for us. With that happy note in my mind, I went off to a deep slumber expecting a lovely DAWN....the first one for 2011!!!